Lists! I make grocery lists, agenda checklists, follow-up “to-do” lists. Lots of lists. On index cards, post-its, my iPad, and just plain paper. My seniors now each have a college list – not finalized yet but getting close. These college lists are carefully and thoughtfully crafted after months of discussion and research. And so far, no two college lists are the same. To stay sane, calm, and focused, everyone starts with the same three rules for developing a balanced college